I know I have to be calm when handling his mischevious behaviors but it's really not easy when he keep repeating them!
Today the teacher told me he spitted on his friends & her. The moment she told me I'm already looking at YR with my black face... And when I asked him why did he want to do that. He told me because he wants to play with his saliva. That even make me more mad so when we are homed he got caned by me. Of coz he cried like mad but after a while he feels nothing happen again. This again makes me think does he really understand that he is behaving wrongly?
After that writing time, he misbehaving again. So I scream & shout, caned the table & chair. To a point I feel I need to stop. If I continue I think I'll lose control.
Now reflecting back, I think his misbehaviour in school affected my mood tonight. Sometimes as the parent I should always remind myself to keep cool. Frequent shouting, screaming & caning might affect his growing up well being. After all he is only a 4 years old kid.
Dear father lord, Pls bless me with ur wisdom & patience when comes to disciplining the kids. I don't want my relationship with my kids turn bad. I don't want him to be scared of me instead.
I used to be very scared of my mom because I used to get cane a lot for bad results and I think it somehow affected my character. I was very inferior during my school days. Scared to show my mom my report book. Sometimes also scared to ask her question. In the end we are not very closed during my young age. We only become closer when I got married & become a mom.
I don't want this history to be repeated on my son. So I must remind myself. Stay calm & think of alternative way to discipline YR. Yes I can do it!
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